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Homosexual activity in New Jersey

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Homosexual activity in New Jersey is legal.

Current status
Since Jun 26, 2003
Legal
US Supreme Court ruling issued in Lawrence v. Texas struck down all sodomy laws on the basis of privacy and liberty. The decision overturned any laws remaining in all US states which prohibited acts of sodomy.
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Same-sex marriage in New Jersey

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Same-sex marriage in New Jersey is legal.

Current status
Since Sep 27, 2013
Legal
In 2013, New Jersey legalized same-sex marriage.
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Censorship of LGBT issues in New Jersey

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Censorship of LGBT issues in New Jersey is no censorship.

Current status
No censorship
There are no laws that censor the LGBTQ community in New Jersey.

New Jersey actually requires schools to teach students about the LGBTQ community.
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Right to change legal gender in New Jersey

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Right to change legal gender in New Jersey is legal, no restrictions.

Current status
Since Feb 1, 2019
Legal, no restrictions
On February 1st, 2019, New Jersey eliminated the requirement for surgery or medical documentation in legal gender recognition.
Nov 19, 1984–Feb 1, 2019
Legal, but requires surgery
In 1984, New Jersey provided for legal gender recognition but required proof of surgery.
Until Nov 18, 1984
Illegal
Until 1984, there was no legal gender recognition provided in New Jersey.
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Gender-affirming care in New Jersey

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Gender-affirming care in New Jersey is legal.

Current status
Legal
Governor Phil Murphy signed Executive Order No. 326, which protects out of state transgender people to come to New Jersey without being prosecuted in their home state. This Executive Order also protects people living in the state.
Sources:
www.nj.gov/governor/news/ne… (Copy of the Executive Order is on the bottom of the page)
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Legal recognition of non-binary gender in New Jersey

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Legal recognition of non-binary gender in New Jersey is recognized.

Current status
Since Feb 1, 2019
Recognized
New Jersey-born residents can ask for an X as their gender marker on their birth certificate as well as IDs.
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LGBT discrimination in New Jersey

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LGBT discrimination in New Jersey is illegal.

Current status
Illegal
People are protected from discrimination based upon both sexual orientation and gender identification.
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LGBT employment discrimination in New Jersey

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LGBT employment discrimination in New Jersey is sexual orientation and gender identity.

Current status
Since 2007
Sexual orientation and gender identity
State law provides for protections against employment discrimination in regards to both sexual orientation and gender identification.
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LGBT housing discrimination in New Jersey

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LGBT housing discrimination in New Jersey is sexual orientation and gender identity.

Current status
Sexual orientation and gender identity
This state explicitly bans housing discrimination based upon sexual orientation and gender identification.

Additionally, the Human Rights Campaign states, "The Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) requires grantees and participants of HUD programs to comply with local and state non-discrimination laws that include sexual orientation and gender identity.
HUD also prohibits inquiries regarding the sexual orientation or gender identity of a prospective tenant or applicant for assisted
housing in every state (March 2012)."
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Same-sex adoption in New Jersey

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Same-sex adoption in New Jersey is legal.

Current status
Since 1995
Legal
Single and joint adoption are permitted per N.J. Stat. §9:3-43.

Second-parent adoption is permitted via case law in H.N.R, 666 A.2d 535 (N.J.Super, 1995)
Sources:
www.lambdalegal.org/states-region/new-jersey
H.N.R., 666 A.2d 535 (N.J.Super, 1995)
§9:3-43
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Intersex infant surgery in New Jersey

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Intersex infant surgery in New Jersey is not banned.

Current status
Not banned
In New Jersey, while laws have been introduced to ban intersex infant surgery, none have been enacted into law.

Serving openly in military in New Jersey

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Serving openly in military in New Jersey is legal.

Current status
Since Mar 18, 2025
Legal under federal United States law
On the evening of March 18th, U.S. District Judge Ana Reyes blocked the implementation of Trump's executive order banning transgender people from the military. The judge said that not only was the order unconstitutional but “a solution in search of a problem.”.
Feb 7, 2025–Mar 17, 2025
Lesbians, gays, bisexuals permitted, transgender people banned under federal United States law
Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth filed in court a memo on February 10th, 2025 relating to President Trump’s executive order from the previous month.

From now on, The U.S. military will prohibit transgender individuals from enlisting, and will cease providing or supporting gender transition procedures for service members.
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Apr 30, 2021–Feb 6, 2025
Legal under federal United States law
President Joe Biden removed former President Donald Trump’s ban on transgender people serving in the military, and transgender people are still allowed to serve as of 2025.

In January of 2025, President Trump signed an executive order that bans transgender people from serving in the military. However, before his executive order can take effect, Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth needs to submit a plan on how the military will implement the order.
Apr 11, 2019–Apr 29, 2021
Lesbians, gays, bisexuals permitted, transgender people banned under federal United States law
The Trump administration enacted a new policy barring individuals with a "condition" known as "gender dysphoria." from serving in the military.
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Sep 20, 2011–Apr 11, 2019
Legal under federal United States law
In 2011, "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" was repealed by the Obama Administration. Former President Obama allowed members who were dishonorably discharged under DADT, to receive an honorable discharge.
Dec 21, 1993–Sep 19, 2011
Don't Ask, Don't Tell under federal United States law
Don't Ask, Don't Tell was the historic compromise signed by President Bill Clinton authorizing people who are LGBT to serve in the military provided they didn't disclose sexuality. The law also removed the ability for others in the military from asking for a service member's orientation.
Sources:
www.gpo.gov/fdsys/pkg/PLAW-…
catalog.archives.gov/id/122244870 *official document for DADT signed by Former President Clinton*
gao.gov/assets/nsiad-92-98.pdf *study from 1992 to 1998*
www.history.com/news/dont-a…
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Blood donations by MSMs in New Jersey

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Blood donations by MSMs in New Jersey is legal.

Current status
Since May 11, 2023
Legal under federal United States law
The new FDA policy on blood donation eliminates deferrals and screening questions specific to men who have sex with men (MSM). Prospective donors will be asked the same set of questions regardless of their sex or sexual orientation.
Apr 2, 2020–May 11, 2023
Banned (less than 6-month deferral) under federal United States law
The FDA announced changes to the blood donor eligibility policy in April 2020, reducing the MSM deferral period from 12 months to 3 months. The change came amid the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic, where blood was needed urgently.
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Dec 21, 2015–Apr 1, 2020
Banned (1-year deferral) under federal United States law
After a series of recommendations, the FDA has moved to a 12 months deferral.
1983–Dec 20, 2015
Banned (indefinite deferral) under federal United States law
Starting in 1983, the United States implemented a full ban on blood donations from gay men. The primary justification for the ban was the perceived high risk of HIV transmission, with health regulators identifying men who have sex with men (MSM) as a significant risk to the safety of the blood supply.
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Conversion therapy in New Jersey

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Conversion therapy in New Jersey is banned.

Current status
Since Aug 19, 2013
Banned
Conversion therapy was banned by the state legislature and signed into law by the governor in August of 2013. It was contested in court and the ban was upheld by the courts.
Until Aug 19, 2013
Not banned
Conversion Therapy is currently legal. No law currently bans it, despite organizations such as the American Psychological Association denouncing it.

Equal age of consent in New Jersey

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Equal age of consent in New Jersey is equal.

Current status
Since Jun 26, 2003
Equal
The age of consent in New Jersey law is for all sexual activity.
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